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My heart breaks for Alyssa and her Mom, please know you are in my prayers and thoughts.

- Susan Lively, Winchester, VA

I got to know Patrick through my son Cliff who was good friends with him. I knew him to be a fine young man, and he was a good friend to Cliff.

- Herbert Hilderbrand, Savannah, GA

Monica, We were heartbroken to read of your son's death. Our heartfelt condolences on your devastating loss. With deepest sympathy, Cindy and John Howard

- John and Cindy Howard, SAVANNAH, GA

What a kind and gentle soul he was. We love you all dearly and are heartbroken over his passing.

- Summer & Jimmy Hitch, Savannah, GA

Monica and Alyssa, we are so saddened by your loss of Patrick. He was one of the most kind hearted and respectful young Man that we have ever been blessed to know and love. Watching him grow up at Rincon UMC, there was never a doubt about what a Wonderful Person he would Turn out to be. So Sad to lose him at such a young age, but you can rest assured, his impact on others, went far beyond his years. I will always cherish our families connection and enjoyed communicating with him over the last few years after we reconnected. Cherry and I thoughts and prayers are with you.

- Ron and cherry harden, Athens , ga

This is very hard for us. We watched Patrick and Alyssa grow up and become great friends with Jordan and Justin while we enjoyed friendship with Monica and Anthony. Patrick was a true joy and always welcome in our home. We take joy in the wonderful memories while we lived in Savannah. Our hearts go out to Monica and Alyssa.

- THE DEAN FAMILY, Mustang, USA_OK

This is very hard for us. We watched Patrick and Alyssa grow up and become great friends with Jordan and Justin while we enjoyed friendship with Monica and Anthony. Patrick was a true joy and always welcome in our home. We take joy in the wonderful memories while we lived in Savannah. Our hearts go out to Monica and Alyssa.

- THE DEAN FAMILY, Mustang, USA_OK

Jesus took delight in raising a widows son back to life. We can just imagined how happy he will be to unite Monica with her beloved husband and son. The originator of families has provided for Christ’s heavenly Kingdom government to resurrect our loved ones. Isaiah 9:6,7 John 5:28,29 We can be comforted that being created with eternity in our hearts, God has made it possible through Christ’s sacrifice. There is nothing that can keep us from God’s love. Romans 8:38,39 The paradise that was intended originally will soon be realized. JW.org “Enjoy Life Forever” Warm Christian Love, Sandy

- Sandy Wirfs, Monroe,, Louisiana

Although I did not keep up with Patrick after High School, I am saddened to hear about his passing. It sounds like he went on to touch many lives outside of Effingham, and he will be missed.

- Tyler Soles, Roswell, GA

I am so sorry for your loss. I was just a member at the YMCA and only spoke with Patrick occasionally; however, he always brought a smile and joy to my day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

- Garr, Nashville, TN

Monica, I am so sorry to learn of Patrick's death. He was a a caring and gentle soul during his time at USCB. He was a leader on our Cross Country team and was a friend to all he met. My heart goes out to you and Patrick's sister. I cannot imagine your pain. I know that your sweet memories of Patrick will be a source of joy for the remainder of your life. You will be in my prayers. Jane

- Jane T Upshaw, Bluffton, SC

Dearest Monica and Family, Jody and I are crushed. We loved Patrick and benefitted each time from our visits with him. It was an honor to work with him and your family with Be the Match and later to connect as he would stop by USCB just to say hi. We love you, we are praying for you, may God give you some peace during this time. What a fitting tribute.

- Kate Torborg and Jody Vermilyea, Sparta, NC

I was a fellow teammate at USCB with Patrick. His kindness and heart to others is what I remember best about him. He was a beautiful soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.

- Nic Tones, Greenville, SC

We are grieving with you. May God be near and very felt in your home. We were with Patrick in Myrtle Beach on summer mission and were blessed to get to know such a kind young man. He was a delight to our group.

- Heather and Chris Nadolny, St Cloud, Fl

I’m sorry I meant to write Miami summer mission and miswrote the other city by habit. We are praying and grieving. May God’s wrap his arms around you and speak to you in ways that minister deeply in the days and years ahead.

- Heather Nadolny, St Cloud, Fl

Monica and Dixie, I am so sad to learn of Patrick’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. He was such a nice young man and I hope that you will be comforted by all the good memories you share of him. May you have the peace of God to sustain you during this difficult time.

- Elinor Carter, Savannah, Ga

Monica and Dixie, I am so sad to learn of Patrick’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. He was such a nice young man and I hope that you will be comforted by all the good memories you share of him. May you have the peace of God to sustain you during this difficult time.

- Elinor Carter, Savannah, Ga

Patrick exuded kindness, particularly giving his full attention to our son when Nate visited the Green Hills Y for the Full Circle exercise class. When Nate died suddenly from a seizure almost three years ago, Patrick posted a touching tribute. In the years following Nate's death, he visited our home occasionally, always concerned about our emotional well-being. He was a gentle and generous soul who will be missed.

- The Nolans, Nashville, TN

My thoughts and prayers go out to Patrick's family and friends. So sorry for your loss.

- Rhett Mouchet, Savannah, GEORGIA

May Patrick Rest In Peace.

- The Lozano Family, Nashville , Tn

Patrick was the warmest , personal ,ethical human being I've ever known and loved. He loved his heritage, he studied his Italian heritage with love and humor. He often referred and imitated the language of The God Father in fun. Our favorite "Whats soma matter you? " He always remembered to communicate with the family on holidays and birthdays. I always felt his warmth and attention. I will miss him so much! At times he was a bridge for all of us. You will always be loved Patrick! Take care of each other Monica and Alyssa, I could not imagine your pain at this time!

- Valerie Mastrianni, Dallas, texas

Jeri saw a FB post and relayed the news to me. We are so sorry to hear and pray for your comfort. The obituary was so positive and uplifting!

- Ed and Jeri Loomis, Miramar Beach, FL

Monica and Alyssa, It is with a very heavy heart that we saw this about Patrick. I can remember picking up the kids and taking them to the skating ring. Patrick had just gotten his license and was so excited. Our hearts breaks with your loss but rejoice in knowing that Patrick is now with his dad and in the Lords arms where he will have peace forever. We will keep you all in our prayers.

- Charlie and Donna Ogletree , Rincon, Ga

My prayers are with you Monica and Alyssa. Patrick was such a compassionate and caring young man. He often mentioned each of you when we met - I was his care giver through my church’s Stephen Ministry. He loves each of you very much!

- Jerry Pfister, Nashville, TN

Although I didn’t know Patrick well, he was more than thoughtful when we crossed paths. He saw me going through a hard time - two weeks later I received a “thinking of you” card with a very kind message. I am very saddened by this news and my prayers go out to his friends and family during this time.

- Natalie, Nashville, TN

To Ms. Monica and family, my heart and prayers of partitions go up to my Lord Jesus Christ who is the giver of life and may His Grace be with you all. I met Patrick through a mutual friend of ours. He would always smile and carry out a great sense of humor. So may his best memories live long through out the years.

- Camelle Kimble , Savannah, GA

Patrick was one of my best friends. I'll always cherish the moments playing on the basketball team together or meeting up for FCA events. Even after high school I stayed in contact with Patrick and we'd always schedule to meet over the summer when we were both back in town. The verse that comes to mind when I think of Patrick is Philippians 2:3-4 "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." Every time I texted or met up with Pat he truly wanted to hear how I was doing in life and was always asking how he could help me. His kind and loving personality is one I will always remember. His corny jokes, big laugh, and beautiful smile, I will never forget. Monica and Alyssa, I am praying for you and the family and want you to know how deeply I wish I could be there right now. May God provide you supernatural peace and comfort in this time.

- Tyler Cox, Seoul, South Korea

I was blessed to teach Patrick at SEHS. He was a beautiful soul and I can't imagine how much he will be missed by all who knew him. My prayers are with you.

- Renee Hatcher , Rincon , GA

Patrick was one of the best coworkers I’ve had the pleasure of working with and not just at the YMCA. He was intentional and kind. He was warm and caring. He was quite simply everything a friend should be. I’ll miss him greatly.

- Blake Haney, Nashville, TN

Monica and Alyssa, our hearts are broken for you. You are in our prayers.

- Sandy and Al Hicks, Rincon, GA

I send my sincere condolences to Monica and Alyssa. Today's memorial service was a beautiful celebration of the life of a wonder person and a true confirmation of the impact Patrick had on all who were lucky enough to have known him. I was fortunate to have been his teacher and meet his wonderful family.

- Bill Caldwell, Pooler, GA

Monica and Family. I am truly sorry for your loss. Reading the comments in the guest book gave me insight as to what a wonderful son Patrick was. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May our heavenly father comfort and console you at this most difficult time.

- Patricia (Mastrianni) Gordon , Pittstown,, NJ

Monica and Alyssa, although we did not get to spend time with all of you throughout the years, you were always in our thoughts. Our deepest condolences and many prayers are being sent to hopefully help sustain you through this difficult time.

- Susan (Mastrianni) Covey, Center Valley , PA

Fly high, Angel of Hope Ministries. May you finally be able to rest in peace. Fly high butterfly for we've all been through trying times. The life we lead determines the legacy we leave behind and yours will be grand.

- Tequilla Dawn Gross, Bluffton, IN