My name is Sheila Vittitow and I died of a lung disease at the age of 64. I have decided to write my own obituary, because I really don't care for the ones that I see published in the newspaper. Often times families will gather and list every minor accomplishment from cradle to grave in a timeline format; or they create a story about someone's life that is so glowing one would think the deceased had been a living god. I don't like the timeline, because let's face it, I never really accomplished anything of great  note. Other than giving birth to my three wonderful, lovable, witty amazing sons - Daniel, Erick and Alex and accepting Jesus as my savior - I have done very little. 

Some people told me I was "morbid" to write my own obituary. But I see it as an opportunity to thank the people that loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me, and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. Thank you! I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile. 

If you happen to think of me when I'm gone and would like to do something in honor of my memory, please do this: 

• Volunteer at a school, church, library, or animal rescue facility 

• Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive impact on your life 

• If you drink and drive - stop 

• Turn off electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. 

• Forgive someone who doesn't deserve it 

• Stop at all lemonade stands run by kids and brag about their product 

• Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so

A private graveside service will be held in Forest Lawn Memory Gardens.