Celebrating the life of
Mathilde Howard Buck
November 20, 1918 - January 13, 2010
Mathilde Howard Buck, 91, passed away, Wednesday, January 13, 2010, at Memorial Medical Center after a brief illness. Born November 20, 1918 in Columbia, South Carolina to John Rufus Howard and Marguerite Paschal Howard. They moved to Savannah in 1919.
She attended Sacred Heart Catholic School, The Pape School, and Saint Mary's in Raleigh, N.C. She was wed to Robert Dudley Buck on February 14, 1948 in the Our Lady’s chapel of the Cathedral of Saint John the Baptist.
In 1951 Union Camp took them to Forrest Hills, NY and then to Mountain Lakes, New Jersey until their return to Savannah in 1973. She was an active member of the Landings Ladies Golf Association, a great bowler, and an avid bridge player with her Union Camp Bridge Club for over 60 years. She played in two other bridge groups and substituted in a fourth. She also loved water aerobics. She traveled extensively and truly saw the world. She was a devout catholic and communicant of Saint Peter the Apostle Catholic Church on Wilmington Island. She was a long time member of the Savannah Yacht Club.
She is survived by her son, Robert V.D. Evans, Jr. Barbara, a daughter, Victoria Boykin Buck, her grandchildren Robert Trey V. D. Evans III Deborah of Savannah, GA. and Mathilde Evans Finke Sean of Buford, GA. , her three great-grandchildren, Robert VanV.D. Evans IV, Emily Jane Evans, Addison Claire Finke, and several nephews.
Visitation will be Friday, January 22nd at Fox and Weeks Funeral Directors, Islands Chapel from 5-7 pm with a Rosary Service at 6:00 pm with Fr. Patrick O'Brien officiating.
Memorial Mass, Saturday, January 23rd, at 11:00 a.m., Saint Peter The Apostle Catholic Church on Wilmington Island with Monsignor James Costigan and Fr. Mariuz Fuchs officiating.
Remembrances can be made to the American Diabetes Association, 5105 Paulsen St., Savannah, GA 31405 and Liblines, P. O. Box 22182, Savannah, GA 31403 as she was a 22 year breast cancer survivor.
Fox and Weeks Funeral Directors, Islands Chapel
Vicky, We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Diane and Steve Plunk
- Diane Plunk, Savannah, GA
My prayers for comfort and healing go out to you Vicky and to all those that love Mathilde. May your happy memories sustain you as you heal. Much love and big hugs, jsm
- Jody McIntyre, Savannah, GA
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was a great friend to my mother, Sidney Bidez, since their school days. I know you will miss her tremendously.
- Vicky Bidez Harrell, Hendersonville, NC
Vicky, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Morgan
- Morgan Derst, Savannah, GA
Vicky, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Loved your mom. Love you, Ann
- Ann Savage, Savannah, GA
Vicky, I was so sorry to learn of the passing of your Mom.She was a great lady and a lived wonderful long life.It is always difficult to say goodbye to those we love.Know I am thinking of her and you.I am certain many fond memories will help to comfort you at this time. Sincerely, Tom Kurtz
- Tom Kurtz, Savannah, GA
Loved by all!
- paulette thompson, savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, Kirby and I are so sorry for your loss. Your Mom was such a sweet lady. Watching your special bond, sitting together at church, always made me wish my Mom lived closer. May all your fond memories bring you comfort and peace. Our prayers are with you. Fondly, Diane & Kirby
- Diane Willis, Savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your sweet mother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Amy and Chad Brock
- Amy Brock, Savannah, GA
In the hearts of all of us who knew her. . . her memory lives. May all these wonderful memories comfort you. Thanks for sharing 'mom' with all of us.
- Patrick & Regina Graham, Savannah, GA
Vicky, Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. With much love, Jeb Bush
- Jeb Bush, Savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, I am so saddend to hear of your mom's passing. I have so many fond memories of you both when we first moved to Mountain Lakes. You are in my thoughts and prayers. A big hug, Susan
- Susan Huarte Casbar, Saddle Brook, NJ
I will always remember, with love, Mathilde's wonderful laugh and twinkle in her eyes. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Kate Walker, Reno, NV
Vicky 'Buckless', I am so sorry to hear about your mom ... she was your BFF. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
- Kathy Winings, Hilton Head Island, SC
VICKY, PLEASE KNOW OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. WHAT A WONDERFUL MOTHER AND FRIEND SHE WAS TO YOU!! ACTUALLY-TO ALL OF US GROWING UP!!! SHE WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR MEMORY WITH HER VW BEETLE CARS AND HER PRETTY RED LIPSTICK. SHE WILL ALWAYS HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS. WE LOVE YOU, LULU & LELE
- lulu bergmark, phoenix, AZ
Vicky, I send my most sincere condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. I will always remember your mother's optimism and warm heart. Thank you for sharing her with us. With big hugs to you from one of your Lady Laker freinds, Sally
- Sally Chambers, Richmond, VA
Vicki, even though I didn't know your mother very well at all, I know how much you loved her and how much pain you are in now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Cherish the good times. Love, Diane and Paul
- diane rousakis, savannah, GA
Vicky, I know you and Mathilde had a very special relationship. Her passing will leave a hole in your heart for a long time. She was special to you and you are special to your friends. We can only offer condolences,prayers, support and our love. I hope that will be some comfort to you during your time of grief.
- Virginia Ward, Savannah, GA
Vicki, I have many fond memories of your mother. She was a wonderful lady. We will keep you and her in our thoughts. Pax Mark & Sue Helmken
- Mark Helmken, Fiarfax Station, VI
Dear Sweet Vicky, My whole family is reflecting on your Tucson visit several years ago with Mathilde and how much good energy she shared with us. I'm glad our parents partied together. My heart is with you. She will always be with us...we'll never forget her! Love, Maggie
- Maggie Conners, Tucson, AZ
Vicky: thank you for your generosity in sharing your wonderful mother Mathil with us. We will always cherish the memory of sitting on the porch, enjoying wine, watching the sun set over the marsh and great conversation. I hope you take a lot of solace in the fact that you were an amazing daughter and friend to Mathil.
- Franci & Allen Edgerly, Saints Simons Island, GA
vicki and bobbie and family. so sorry to hear of your loss. she was a special lady and will be missed. i hope she and the rest of the group that went before are having a wonderful time in the ever after. she will be missed. laura and gary brinkley.
- laura brinkley, champaign, IL
Vicky, Daryl and I wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mom was such a beautiful and special lady that comes around once in a lifetime. She adored you and she adored life and lived it to the fullest, with no regrets. Not many people can say that. If you need anything, please let us know. We love you, Jackie and Daryl
- Jackie Edmonds, Littleton, CO
Vicki - You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your Mom was an incredible lady and will be missed greatly by all those fortunate enough to have known her. My mother Lou thought so much of her and was just recently talking about what fun they had together at the Christmas party. They always could share a giggle! May God bring you peace during this difficult time. Love, Beverly Barnes
- Beverly Barnes, Fletcher, NC
To Vicki- I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She loved you very much, you know. What a wonderful life, so well lived. Although you are hurting now, as we all are for you, please know that she is in a wonderful place. That smile of hers is surely lighting up the heavens this very day. Please feel some comfort in knowing that you are loved by so many. We are here for you. May God's comfort and mercy be on you, your mom, and all of us.
- Chip Chambers, Savannah, GA
Vicki, You have been in Lori and my thoughts and prayers. We love you.
- Beau Lynah, , GA
We were so very sorry to hear of the loss of Mathilde. She was a wonderful, fun loving woman who lived life to the fullest. We will keep you in our prayers. Rod and Julie
- Julie Musselman, Savannah, GA
Dearest Vicky, Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of your beloved mother. She reminded me so much of my own darling mother......always full of vim and vigor. Know that I am thinking of you with much love at this difficult time
- Fran Harold, Savannah, GA
Vicky- Our hearts go out to you during this hard time. Your momma was very special and will be greatly missed. We love you! Kelly and Daniel
- Kelly and Daniel Tucker, Savannah, GA
We're all so sorry for your loss, Vicky. Your mom was one-of-a-kind and will be greatly missed. We're thinking of you and are here for you should you need anything at all.
- Mindy Shea, Savannah, GA
Vicky- My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mathilde was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for your loss. Love- Tara & Charlie
- Tara Dixon, Savannah, GA
Vicky, We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Diane and Steve Plunk
- Diane Plunk, Savannah, GA
My prayers for comfort and healing go out to you Vicky and to all those that love Mathilde. May your happy memories sustain you as you heal. Much love and big hugs, jsm
- Jody McIntyre, Savannah, GA
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was a great friend to my mother, Sidney Bidez, since their school days. I know you will miss her tremendously.
- Vicky Bidez Harrell, Hendersonville, NC
Vicky, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Morgan
- Morgan Derst, Savannah, GA
Vicky, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Loved your mom. Love you, Ann
- Ann Savage, Savannah, GA
Vicky, I was so sorry to learn of the passing of your Mom.She was a great lady and a lived wonderful long life.It is always difficult to say goodbye to those we love.Know I am thinking of her and you.I am certain many fond memories will help to comfort you at this time. Sincerely, Tom Kurtz
- Tom Kurtz, Savannah, GA
Loved by all!
- paulette thompson, savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, Kirby and I are so sorry for your loss. Your Mom was such a sweet lady. Watching your special bond, sitting together at church, always made me wish my Mom lived closer. May all your fond memories bring you comfort and peace. Our prayers are with you. Fondly, Diane & Kirby
- Diane Willis, Savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your sweet mother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Amy and Chad Brock
- Amy Brock, Savannah, GA
In the hearts of all of us who knew her. . . her memory lives. May all these wonderful memories comfort you. Thanks for sharing 'mom' with all of us.
- Patrick & Regina Graham, Savannah, GA
Vicky, Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. With much love, Jeb Bush
- Jeb Bush, Savannah, GA
Dear Vicky, I am so saddend to hear of your mom's passing. I have so many fond memories of you both when we first moved to Mountain Lakes. You are in my thoughts and prayers. A big hug, Susan
- Susan Huarte Casbar, Saddle Brook, NJ
I will always remember, with love, Mathilde's wonderful laugh and twinkle in her eyes. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Kate Walker, Reno, NV
Vicky 'Buckless', I am so sorry to hear about your mom ... she was your BFF. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
- Kathy Winings, Hilton Head Island, SC
VICKY, PLEASE KNOW OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. WHAT A WONDERFUL MOTHER AND FRIEND SHE WAS TO YOU!! ACTUALLY-TO ALL OF US GROWING UP!!! SHE WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR MEMORY WITH HER VW BEETLE CARS AND HER PRETTY RED LIPSTICK. SHE WILL ALWAYS HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS. WE LOVE YOU, LULU & LELE
- lulu bergmark, phoenix, AZ
Vicky, I send my most sincere condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. I will always remember your mother's optimism and warm heart. Thank you for sharing her with us. With big hugs to you from one of your Lady Laker freinds, Sally
- Sally Chambers, Richmond, VA
Vicki, even though I didn't know your mother very well at all, I know how much you loved her and how much pain you are in now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Cherish the good times. Love, Diane and Paul
- diane rousakis, savannah, GA
Vicky, I know you and Mathilde had a very special relationship. Her passing will leave a hole in your heart for a long time. She was special to you and you are special to your friends. We can only offer condolences,prayers, support and our love. I hope that will be some comfort to you during your time of grief.
- Virginia Ward, Savannah, GA
Vicki, I have many fond memories of your mother. She was a wonderful lady. We will keep you and her in our thoughts. Pax Mark & Sue Helmken
- Mark Helmken, Fiarfax Station, VI
Dear Sweet Vicky, My whole family is reflecting on your Tucson visit several years ago with Mathilde and how much good energy she shared with us. I'm glad our parents partied together. My heart is with you. She will always be with us...we'll never forget her! Love, Maggie
- Maggie Conners, Tucson, AZ
Vicky: thank you for your generosity in sharing your wonderful mother Mathil with us. We will always cherish the memory of sitting on the porch, enjoying wine, watching the sun set over the marsh and great conversation. I hope you take a lot of solace in the fact that you were an amazing daughter and friend to Mathil.
- Franci & Allen Edgerly, Saints Simons Island, GA
vicki and bobbie and family. so sorry to hear of your loss. she was a special lady and will be missed. i hope she and the rest of the group that went before are having a wonderful time in the ever after. she will be missed. laura and gary brinkley.
- laura brinkley, champaign, IL
Vicky, Daryl and I wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mom was such a beautiful and special lady that comes around once in a lifetime. She adored you and she adored life and lived it to the fullest, with no regrets. Not many people can say that. If you need anything, please let us know. We love you, Jackie and Daryl
- Jackie Edmonds, Littleton, CO
Vicki - You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your Mom was an incredible lady and will be missed greatly by all those fortunate enough to have known her. My mother Lou thought so much of her and was just recently talking about what fun they had together at the Christmas party. They always could share a giggle! May God bring you peace during this difficult time. Love, Beverly Barnes
- Beverly Barnes, Fletcher, NC
To Vicki- I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She loved you very much, you know. What a wonderful life, so well lived. Although you are hurting now, as we all are for you, please know that she is in a wonderful place. That smile of hers is surely lighting up the heavens this very day. Please feel some comfort in knowing that you are loved by so many. We are here for you. May God's comfort and mercy be on you, your mom, and all of us.
- Chip Chambers, Savannah, GA
Vicki, You have been in Lori and my thoughts and prayers. We love you.
- Beau Lynah, , GA
We were so very sorry to hear of the loss of Mathilde. She was a wonderful, fun loving woman who lived life to the fullest. We will keep you in our prayers. Rod and Julie
- Julie Musselman, Savannah, GA
Dearest Vicky, Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of your beloved mother. She reminded me so much of my own darling mother......always full of vim and vigor. Know that I am thinking of you with much love at this difficult time
- Fran Harold, Savannah, GA
Vicky- Our hearts go out to you during this hard time. Your momma was very special and will be greatly missed. We love you! Kelly and Daniel
- Kelly and Daniel Tucker, Savannah, GA
We're all so sorry for your loss, Vicky. Your mom was one-of-a-kind and will be greatly missed. We're thinking of you and are here for you should you need anything at all.
- Mindy Shea, Savannah, GA
Vicky- My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mathilde was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for your loss. Love- Tara & Charlie
- Tara Dixon, Savannah, GA
Services under the direction of:
Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
912-352-7200
