Celebrating the life of
Helen Conaway "Becky" Tedder
November 06, 1947 - April 23, 2015
SAVANNAH - Helen Conaway Tedder, known and loved as Becky, passed away on Thursday, April 23, 2015 after a long illness. Becky was a lifelong resident of Savannah. She graduated from Savannah High School in 1965 and studied at Armstrong State College. Becky was a cherished member of the Savannah Country Day School staff for 27 years, and of the Isle of Hope United Methodist Church, where she led the Bible Study Fellowship for over a decade.
Becky’s life was best exemplified by the warmth and love she shared with family, friends and the hundreds of students she watched grow up on the campus of Savannah Country Day. She was a wife, a mom, a sister, a grandmother, an amazing friend, and a Hornet. Becky was a contented spirit; she did not envy or judge or want, though she could not resist a cute pair of shoes. She listened. She was loyal, easy to be with, and quick to laugh. She touched so many lives through her big hugs, great smile, and just by being present.
But her quiet demeanor belied a courage and resilience that showed through life’s inevitable hardships. Becky never quit. She was never in a hurry, but she always kept going. Her feisty spirit could take you by surprise and make you laugh. She loved sweets, parties and music. Becky’s greatest loves were her children and grandchildren. She was proud of and generous with them. Her loving spirit will guide and stay with them forever.
Becky lived simply, but she loved abundantly. She was a beautiful soul who will be missed terribly. As the son of a close family friend said, “she will always be one of my favorite people. Ever.”
Becky is survived by her lifelong sweetheart and husband of 47 years, Bob, children Brady (Tiffany), Chris (Melissa), Katie Tedder Borges, and nephew who was like a son to her, Chris Caldwell (Lori); grandchildren Jonahthan, Megan and Brandon Borges; brother Bill Conaway (Diane), several nieces and nephews, and the many children of friends, to whom she will always be “Aunt Becky.” She was preceded in death by her father Bill Conaway, her mother, Helen Jordan, and her sister Sally Caldwell.
Visitation will be from 1-2 pm on Saturday, April 25, 2015 at Fox and Weeks, 7200 Hodgson Memorial Drive, Savannah, GA, followed by a funeral service in the chapel at 2pm. Remembrances can be made to Savannah Country Day School, 924 Stillwood Drive, Savannah 31419, or Isle of Hope United Methodist Church, 412 Parkersburg Road, Savannah, GA 31406.
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Having volunteered as a parent at SCDS through the years, I had the privilege of working closely with Becky. She loved the school and the students so very deeply, She saw so many students pass through the Lower School but was able to remember names and always wanted to know how they were doing post graduation. I will miss her sweet smile for sure! I was so blessed to call her a friend. My prayers to the family. God bless and keep you during this time.
- Beth Owens and family, Savannah, Georgia
We shall always remember Becky as a wonderful and caring neighbor in Forest Acres for over 20 years and for her love and care atSavannah Country Day for many years. We all loved Becky andshall missher. Our sympathy and prayers are with each of you-Bob,Brady, Katie, and Chris. God Bless, The Josey Family
- Roberta and Bert Josey, Columbia, S, C.
I will always remember Becky for her open door, easy laugh, and dinners at the kitchen table. I always felt like one of the family at her house. Thinking of you all.
- Will Knight, Charlottesville, VA
You are missed Becky. I know that you have been reunited with family members already in Heaven and what a wonderful celebration that must be. I'm sure that Jeff has already given you a huge hug. I pray that both of you can feel the love that we all have for you. I miss you very much, you were always a sweet and supportive friend. It comforts me to think of you and Jeff together.
- Emily Jowers, Savannah, Ga
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss, and for the loss to the Old Barn Road community.
- Ed and Suzanne Driscoll, and Rosmarie David, Savannah, GA
Becky was an amazing encourager and supporter of the parents and families at SCDS all the years my children and grandson were there. I only knew her well at school but I can genuinely say that she was as much like Christ in her work as anyone I've ever known. She would listen to you, cry with you and never judge. Yet, in her calm and deliberate way, she would offer loving and wise advice whenever asked. I've missed her there since she retired, but our family will always remember her fondly and with deep respect. Our wish for her dear family is to grieve well and know how many of us are praying for you in your loss.
- Andrea and Clyde Andrews, Savannah, GA
Condolences for a sweet lady!
- Adger Ross, Savannah, GA
Our condolences to the family. She will be missed by many and we will continue to send prayers your way. Gary, Mechelle, Jailyn and Julian Gladney
- The Gladney Family, Savannah, Georgia
Becky will truly be missed by her friends and neighbors in Forest Acres. Not a day would go by when you would see her pass with a wave and a smile for all. We pray for her family for the loss of someone so special in the lives of many.
- Randy & Pat Queen, Savannah, GA
What an inspiring example of how to live. Ever warm and gracious, Talking with Becky would make your day better. Becky will always stand out as one of the first people that offered their friendship and help in any situation. To Katie and family,We offer our condolences and share your sorrow for the passing of such a genuine person, My family is better because she was around them..
- byck family, savannah, ga
Becky was like a second mother to me when growing up in Forest Acres with Chris. She had a warm heart and gentle demeanor that made her very comfortable to be around. I can't think of a moment when she was not happy, and her positive energy spread among those around her. She was a truly special person. My sincere condolences to Chris, Brady, Katie, Bob and the rest of her loving family.
- Christopher Bergen, Denver, CO
To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord~ Becky was a wonderful person and always had the greatest smile for all she greeted. My prayers are for God to give you His peace as you look to Him for comfort.
- Ed & Frances Johns, Savannah, GA
a favorite person that I will miss terribly. Jerry and I send our love and condolences to her family and all who loved her.. My heart is broken.
- Ruthie Williams, savannah, ga
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this sad time. We were so saddened to read of Becky's death. May her memory be eternal. With our deepest sympathy, Irene and Toby Purdy
- Irene and Toby Purdy, Richmond Hill, GA
Dear Bob and family, No words can express the deep sadness that we and so many others feel at this moment. Becky was a sweet, kind and sincere person who loved you dearly. She loved you in life and she always will. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
- Bill and Janet Hunton, Savannah, GA
From my family to yours, We are so grateful to have known such a wonderful lady for so many years. She will be missed for many things but for me and my family, it was her her sense of humor, consideration for others and kindness. Simply put, This world was a better place with her in it. Jon, Charles and claudia Chappell.
- Chappell family, savannah, ga
My deepest condolence to the Tedder family for the loss of your dear loved one. During this most difficult time, may your hearts be comforted by Jehovah God's promise to swallow up death forever and wipe away the tears from all faces(Isaiah 25:8). Also during the days to come, may Mrs. Tedder's sweet memories fill your hearts with joy and peace.
- Thomas, Snellville, Ga.
Becky was such a special friend to me while I was teaching at SCDS and beyond. To Katie and family, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time,
- Kristen Wheelock (Baiad), Savannah, Ga
Having volunteered as a parent at SCDS through the years, I had the privilege of working closely with Becky. She loved the school and the students so very deeply, She saw so many students pass through the Lower School but was able to remember names and always wanted to know how they were doing post graduation. I will miss her sweet smile for sure! I was so blessed to call her a friend. My prayers to the family. God bless and keep you during this time.
- Beth Owens and family, Savannah, Georgia
We shall always remember Becky as a wonderful and caring neighbor in Forest Acres for over 20 years and for her love and care atSavannah Country Day for many years. We all loved Becky andshall missher. Our sympathy and prayers are with each of you-Bob,Brady, Katie, and Chris. God Bless, The Josey Family
- Roberta and Bert Josey, Columbia, S, C.
I will always remember Becky for her open door, easy laugh, and dinners at the kitchen table. I always felt like one of the family at her house. Thinking of you all.
- Will Knight, Charlottesville, VA
You are missed Becky. I know that you have been reunited with family members already in Heaven and what a wonderful celebration that must be. I'm sure that Jeff has already given you a huge hug. I pray that both of you can feel the love that we all have for you. I miss you very much, you were always a sweet and supportive friend. It comforts me to think of you and Jeff together.
- Emily Jowers, Savannah, Ga
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss, and for the loss to the Old Barn Road community.
- Ed and Suzanne Driscoll, and Rosmarie David, Savannah, GA
Becky was an amazing encourager and supporter of the parents and families at SCDS all the years my children and grandson were there. I only knew her well at school but I can genuinely say that she was as much like Christ in her work as anyone I've ever known. She would listen to you, cry with you and never judge. Yet, in her calm and deliberate way, she would offer loving and wise advice whenever asked. I've missed her there since she retired, but our family will always remember her fondly and with deep respect. Our wish for her dear family is to grieve well and know how many of us are praying for you in your loss.
- Andrea and Clyde Andrews, Savannah, GA
Condolences for a sweet lady!
- Adger Ross, Savannah, GA
Our condolences to the family. She will be missed by many and we will continue to send prayers your way. Gary, Mechelle, Jailyn and Julian Gladney
- The Gladney Family, Savannah, Georgia
Becky will truly be missed by her friends and neighbors in Forest Acres. Not a day would go by when you would see her pass with a wave and a smile for all. We pray for her family for the loss of someone so special in the lives of many.
- Randy & Pat Queen, Savannah, GA
What an inspiring example of how to live. Ever warm and gracious, Talking with Becky would make your day better. Becky will always stand out as one of the first people that offered their friendship and help in any situation. To Katie and family,We offer our condolences and share your sorrow for the passing of such a genuine person, My family is better because she was around them..
- byck family, savannah, ga
Becky was like a second mother to me when growing up in Forest Acres with Chris. She had a warm heart and gentle demeanor that made her very comfortable to be around. I can't think of a moment when she was not happy, and her positive energy spread among those around her. She was a truly special person. My sincere condolences to Chris, Brady, Katie, Bob and the rest of her loving family.
- Christopher Bergen, Denver, CO
To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord~ Becky was a wonderful person and always had the greatest smile for all she greeted. My prayers are for God to give you His peace as you look to Him for comfort.
- Ed & Frances Johns, Savannah, GA
a favorite person that I will miss terribly. Jerry and I send our love and condolences to her family and all who loved her.. My heart is broken.
- Ruthie Williams, savannah, ga
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this sad time. We were so saddened to read of Becky's death. May her memory be eternal. With our deepest sympathy, Irene and Toby Purdy
- Irene and Toby Purdy, Richmond Hill, GA
Dear Bob and family, No words can express the deep sadness that we and so many others feel at this moment. Becky was a sweet, kind and sincere person who loved you dearly. She loved you in life and she always will. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
- Bill and Janet Hunton, Savannah, GA
From my family to yours, We are so grateful to have known such a wonderful lady for so many years. She will be missed for many things but for me and my family, it was her her sense of humor, consideration for others and kindness. Simply put, This world was a better place with her in it. Jon, Charles and claudia Chappell.
- Chappell family, savannah, ga
My deepest condolence to the Tedder family for the loss of your dear loved one. During this most difficult time, may your hearts be comforted by Jehovah God's promise to swallow up death forever and wipe away the tears from all faces(Isaiah 25:8). Also during the days to come, may Mrs. Tedder's sweet memories fill your hearts with joy and peace.
- Thomas, Snellville, Ga.
Becky was such a special friend to me while I was teaching at SCDS and beyond. To Katie and family, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time,
- Kristen Wheelock (Baiad), Savannah, Ga
Services under the direction of:
Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
912-352-7200
